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WHAT ARE THE FUNDAMENTAL RESPONSE OPTIONS? |
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There are two fundamental response options represented by ‘Fight’ or ‘Flight’. They are not as distinctly separate as might be imagined at first, and in reality exist upon a continuum one with the other. For example, the process of yielding and changing body is part of the process of withdrawing, yet is mostly employed in our art in order to afford the best means of ‘engaging’ the other person as in the use of physical force. |
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As a matter of course and experience I always try to be aware of impending situations. Where reasonably possible I avoid situations and places that place me at risk. |
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I am mindful that when I employ the process of tactile communication* (physical force), I nearly always use some form of verbal response at the same time. I also realise that my body language also gives a powerful message to the other person. Therefore I am using all three components of the ‘flight’ response. |
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Further, I almost always employ some form of yielding, evasive strategy that facilitates my ability to communicate with the other person upon whatever level is required. |
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This results in my being able to neutralise the behaviour or remove myself from the situation. |
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In actuality therefore, I may have employed all the fundamental response options that exist, all at the same time. |
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| THE FUNDAMENTAL RESPONSE OPTIONS: |
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FIGHT |
MEDIAN |
FLIGHT
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COMMUNICATE
a. Visual (body language, gestures)
b. Vocal – verbal (talk-down – kiai etc.)
c. Tactile (touch physical force)
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CAPITULATE
a. Freeze
b. Permit
c. Accept |
WITHDRAW
a. Avoidance before the event b. Evasion during the event c. Escape to neutralise the event
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NOTE: |
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I have for long regarded the use of physical force as a process of tactile communication. I believe that it is right so to do. The manner of touch that we employ gives a very powerful message to the other person. For example, the use of soft hands to redirect an attack can (subject to accurate assessment) have a calming effect upon the situation, affected by the message given. By the same token, a sound punch on the nose also gives a very powerful message to the other person. |
| However, touch, no matter how light or caring, applies ‘force’. Therefore, in law, my idealistic ‘tactile communication’ standpoint does not hold up, and gets to be called ‘Physical force’. |